Looking at people different

I wonder what makes you see people in a new way?

It's strange when you suddenly see somenone in a new light when you've never thought about them in that way before.
It has only happend to me ones, and what started as i joke ended with me really liking a person.
Or anyway, I like everything i know so far, which is'nt much right now, but i hope it will be.

How come you fall in and out of love, do you ever really know anyone, or is it you that changes??
As most of you know i meet someone last summer, just before i went to Edinburgh. When i got back it wasn't the same thing. Perhaps it's because he's feelings towards me changed and I adjusted to that, but i still think that it would have taken me longer to get over it if i truly were in love with him.
Was I just in love with the feeling of being in love or what happend?!
I still like him as a friend but nothing more than that, so it's difficult to understand that this is a person i thought about all the time just 3 months ago..

So I guess I've only been truly inlove ones, and that lasted for 7 years, our problem wasn't that we fell out of love, but the fact that we wanted different things.

I've had crushes, but even that is rare for me, for a while i suspected that i were incapable of liking somenone new, but i was glad when i found out it wasn't like that. I just needed time for myself .

The picture is of one of my best friends Erik, whom i never been in love with!!!